" Whye do boys hurt girls ? "
The first thing boys do when they heard a girl ask this question is to fight back and make girls think the opposite way . They will start saying words/phrases such as , " No lah ! You girls feel so negative . Boys are not like that ! Girls hurts and dump boys ! It's actually girls who doesn't understand boys ! " etc . That's what they got to say right ? Dear boys, we asked this question for you to answer and not to fight back . We are not playing the Arena , my dear . And we girls will be like , " Why you hurt me ? WHY ?! " All we want to know is why . So let's start talking about the facts ! ^^


When I say boys are the same , guys will be coming to me and throwing all vulgarities saying they are not the same . And the explanation I've got was , " Fuck you larh girl ! Perangai kite lain ! Ade yang jahat , ade yang tak . " Again , what kind of explanation was that ? Maybe I am wrong for saying all guys are the same . From girl's experiences , I would agree to say 1/4 of the boys are the different type , they are those who are faithful in love , love the girl for who she is , really serious in love and so on . The another 3/4 ? They are the ones who go for very pretty/high-standard girls , go out with diferrent girls like every week (?) , the one who love because of their wonderfull/pretty looks , thinks highly of himself etc . Now , I'm talking about majority .


I am very sure that many of girls fall for them easily , very easily . We are not scared to admit that we are blind that time . We might look at their picture and thought they are so good-looking . They may be good-looking but their heart is not as good-looking as their face . One word to describe this type of boys , typical .

Type 1 : Tagged/Facebook , a very famous place to communicate and know each other . Some boys will just add girls and it is not wrong to do so . The will comment/message asking for intro(okey) , msn(still okey) or even hp numbers(NOT OKEY) ! Like hey ? You don't even know our name and asked for hp numbers as if we are friends . For those guys who added girls in msn will tend to ask for intro first . They will start a convo like , " hey there ! Can i have your intro ? / Intro pls ? / " After we give or intro and ask fr their's , the will say something like , example " Ohh ! I am MatrepBodoh and 1000 years old , single and looking for one . U , boleh exchange number tak ? :D " When we say no , they will be begging us for it . And when we got irritated by it , girls will not answer because it is the best way to stop the convo . And they will be saying , " Alaaa , sombong pulak . Aderh lelaki laen , nanaq chat dengan i lagi seh ): Haisx , tak pe laa :'( " Girls will be SO irritated okey boys ! And they will start writing at their PM about us . How pathetic ! And the next day his PM will change to , " Attached to BabyBabi on 14midnight , malam jumaat , ily forever bby ! " Wow ! What a fast replacement !



Type 2 : Girls are walking alone or with their friends , and some guys just popped up and say , "Adek , boleh mintak number tak ? My kawan nak uh . *smile+muke-tatawu-malu*" . Since when did my mum married yr father . The first thing they text , " Hello you ! Niy mie larh , yang tadiy mie mintak number ue pat luar toilet thu ! Btw , namer ue saperh ? " We will give our intro and most will ask for stead straight away after that . Girls will be thinking that the guy is desperate for a girlfriend . We would reply , " Eh ! Blom kenal lamer dah nak stead ? Ape aje . Sorry i cannot accept . " And these typical guys will reply saying , " Ok , mie promise ue that mie akan setia to satu pompan ajer . Ue , mie betol betol sayang kan ue . Berikan lah mie kesempatan untok memenang hati ue . Mie tak suke kalao pompan buwang mie . Mie sayang ue sepenoh haty tao b , mwah luvvv ue !! " We just got to knw each other and you can fall in love deeply with me . Hahaha ! What a joke yea boys . The next day , girls will not accept guys like this and we would reject them and we said it nicely . They would just message and say , " k , takpe . bye ! dun msg me anymore kkay . " The girl just say she couldn't accept the guy and not we cannot be friends forever . This typical guy will forget the girl just like that and find for other girls .

Sounds very familiar right ? :D
So now , back to why boys hurt girls .

In my opinion , there could be several reasons why . First , maybe they are afraid of being dump so they cause pain before pain can be caused onto them . Second , they don't realise the consequences of their actions . They don't think everything through , so what may seem like a good idea turns out to be totally the wrong thing to do . Third , they take their girl's love for granted . They think that no matter what they do , the girl will still love them and forgive them .

After a being hurt by a guy (break up) , what girls would feel was as if their heart is stab by one thousand knives . Girls doen't want our family to see us cry so we would cry in our shower or cry before sleep . When a break up occurs , we would feel as if the world has gone upside down . Everything seems to be wrong , very wrong . It is really hard forgetting a guy whom we really love . We don't have the the strength to wake up frm our sleep , we don't have the strength to laugh and to smile . All we thought is why boys asked for a break up . We think that the only way to solve this problem is to take a knife and kill our self , take some pills , jump off a building etc . You wouldn't be suprised if a broken hearted girl would be locking herself in her room . All she thought was , " What's my mistake to him ? " It really hurts , our heart hurts more then a slash of penknife on our wrist . It takes weeks , months and even years to forget a guy we truly loved . A girl accept a break up because that's is what a guy wants . We love you more then we love ourself .

What boys do after break up is , just putting the blame on the girl . Guys will ignore the girl's messages etc . They may feel happy when a girl accept his wants . If we view them differently , they may be feeling sad . They feel like crying but boys don't really cry for girls . It took at least an hour or lesser for a guy to forget a girl . They would say phrases like , " You are one in a million , it's so hard for me to let you go . But we are not fated to be together . I love you nomatter what ): " How touching , but the next day we got to know the guys is attached . It hurts , really .

Ai did a researched and saw this ;
If you dress nicely, he says you're a snob
If you dress sexy, he says you're a slut

If you argue with him, he says you're stubborn,
If you're quiet, he says you're stupid

If you call him, he says you're needy and clingy.
If he calls you, he says you should be grateful

If you don't love him, he'll try to win you
If you love him, he'll leave you.

If you tell him your problems, he'll say you're irritating,
If you don't, he'll say you don't trust him.

If you lecture him, he'll say you're bitchy,
If he lectures you, it's because he cares .

If you break a promise, you can't be trusted,
if he breaks it, he had to do it

If you cheat, u expect it to be over
If he cheats, he expects to be given another chance


iniey credits sume untok linavanilla.she`s the writer eyhk
i find it real siol~ so guys,tkmh saket hati plak.(:
So , I really agree with those in red . I guess I'm tired typing all out .

Again boys , I'm really sorry if you guys are offended by what I've typed above . And for those people who doesn't agree with me , this are just my opinions and feelings . Peace out ya ! ^^v